Monday, October 26, 2009

A Thief in the Night

by Jim Elliff*

A friend of mine slept through a robbery in his own home.

His wife wasn't so comatose. In fact, when the man entered their bedroom, she immediately began chasing him down the hall. With this lady on his tail, he didn't steal much but trouble. Meanwhile, back in the sack, my friend snored away, totally oblivious to the whole ordeal.

The day of the Lord will also come like a thief in the night. Are you ready?

Now brothers, about times and dates we do not need to write to you, for you know very well that the day of the Lord will come like a thief in the night. While people are saying, "Peace and safety," destruction will come on them suddenly, as labor pains on a pregnant woman, and they will not escape. 1 Th. 5:1-3

Notice the word—suddenly!

He will come while people are saying, "Peace and safety." In other words, life will be going on as normal, with no particular reason to be alarmed. But then, all of a sudden, destruction will come.

Years ago, my mother's childhood home was freshly painted. All the older members of the family had worked so hard on it. Now, they would just do a little cleanup and then they would be able to enjoy the new look. But, suddenly, the room burst into flame. In a matter of a few moments everything was destroyed.

When God's day of judgment comes, most people will rise from bed as on any other day, go to work or school, eat their meals, speak to their friends, etc., just as they have always done. A regular day is precisely the kind of day God will come in judgment. Don't expect someone to announce, "Everyone will now need to prepare for the Day of Judgment. You have forty-eight hours to get right with God." We don't know the date or the times when destruction will come—we only know that it is destined to happen, and suddenly.

The other day I saw a news report of a woman who gave birth to her baby in the car on the way to the hospital. All of a sudden the birth pains came. Here was this frantic dad trying to get to the doctor in the speed of light while simultaneously telling his wife to hold it in. "Holding it in" didn't work. When the birth pains come, the baby follows. God's day of judgment will come suddenly, just like that.

But you, brothers, are not in darkness so that this day should surprise you like a thief. You are all sons of the light and sons of the day. We do not belong to the night or to the darkness. So then, let us not be like others who are asleep, but let us be alert and self-controlled. 1 Th. 5:4-6

The day of the Lord will come as a thief, that is, suddenly. But it shouldn't surprise you like a thief. That is, the day of the Lord should not catch any true Christian unaware or off guard as if you were unprepared. You are not like those who sleep, if you are a true believer, but like those who are "sons of the day." True believers, therefore, should be "alert and self-controlled," fully anticipating such a day of God's wrath and indignation on the world.

For one thing, God has not appointed authentic believers to receive that wrath. "For God did not appoint us to suffer wrath but to receive salvation through our Lord Jesus Christ," the writer goes on to say. 1 Th. 5:9

I'm not able to predict what means God might use to deliver you from that wrath. But we do know this: no Christian will incur the wrath of God.

You may go through all kinds of physical pain even to the point of death, but it will not be punitive for the believer. For believers, death is the turnstile into God's presence. Or, you may be transported out of it all, without even the smell of smoke. Destruction or death for the non-believer, on the other hand, will always lead to eternal hell, whenever it comes.

Are you one who thinks you can quickly work things out with God as soon as you see trouble is brewing? Then the main point of this passage is directed toward you. The day will come so suddenly that you will not be able to do anything to alter your destiny. If you go into this time as an unbeliever, don't expect the slightest opportunity to remedy that situation once judgment comes.

But there is hope!

The author Paul says, "He died for us so that, whether we are awake or asleep [here he means, alive or dead], we may live together with him." 1 Th. 5:10

Christ's death on the cross is the one means by which you may escape the penalty for sins you deserve. When Christ went to the cross, He did so in order to bear sins and take on Himself God's wrath for people like you as a substitute. Because of that loving, sacrificial act, you may escape the just penalty of your sins and live forever with Him—the deliverance promised to anyone who puts his or her trust in the Rescuer.

And then suddenly is no longer a frightening word.

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*This article is a chapter in
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Monday, October 12, 2009

The Corrupt Root and Bitter Fruit of Altar Call Evangelism

by Daryl Wingerd

The last command Jesus gave before ascending into heaven was, "Go therefore and make disciples . . ." (Matthew 28:19). All true followers of Christ want to be a part of this "Great Commission." But how should we go about it? Everyone who understands the importance of special revelation (i.e., God's Word in the Bible) agrees that evangelism involves the evangel (i.e., the gospel). No one will be saved without it. As Paul asked, "How then will they call on Him in whom they have not believed? How will they believe in Him whom they have not heard? And how will they hear without a preacher? . . . So faith comes from hearing, and hearing by the word of Christ" (Romans 10:14, 17). There are those who believe people can be saved without hearing about Christ, but no one should believe that. The gospel is essential.

But what about evangelistic strategies? What are the best ways to put the gospel to work? There is nothing wrong with using a strategic approach for getting the gospel into the ears of sinners. Whether we realize it or not, we all have our own strategy for doing this. Sadly, the evangelistic "strategy" of many Christians resembles deer hunting from a tree stand more than obedience to the Great Commission. Christ said, "Go . . . make . . . ." In other words, He commanded His followers to be intentional and active in their evangelism. But many Christians don't go anywhere or do anything in this respect. They just go about their ordinary business, waiting passively for something to come to them. Others use more active approaches, such as,

  • taking the gospel to unreached people groups in distant lands, or sacrificially supporting such missionary efforts
  • writing and/or distributing evangelistic books, tracts, and other literature
  • maintaining evangelistic websites or blogs
  • building strategic relationships with unsaved neighbors, co-workers, or friends for the purpose of teaching them about Christ, often through the use of evangelistic literature
  • attending non-Christian (or even professedly Christian) religious gatherings where the gospel is not preached for the purpose of introducing the truth
  • strategically "hanging out" in public places where conversations with unsaved people are likely (e.g., coffee houses), for the purpose of planting gospel seeds.

These strategies (and others like them) serve to accomplish one simple and necessary aspect of evangelism. They put the means of salvation (i.e., the gospel) and those who need to hear it (i.e., the unconverted sinner), in the same place at the same time.

Some readers may have noticed that I omitted one common form of evangelism in the above list: crusade/revival-type evangelism. My omission was intentional, to demonstrate a distinct and critical difference between the typical use of this form of evangelism and the others. Here's what I mean: In the strategies listed above, the methods of evangelism are ways of introducing the means of salvation to the unconverted. The methods are not seen as means themselves. The same is partly true of crusade/revival-type evangelism. People are invited to attend so that they will be present where the gospel is being preached. But after the gospel is preached at the typical crusade/revival event (whether large or small), something is done that in my view blurs the distinction between method and means, implying that the two are co-dependent.

At the conclusion of the preaching at the typical crusade/revival-type event, the pastor or evangelist will often say something like, "I want to give you the opportunity now to receive Christ. If you will . . . ." What follows is not merely an appeal to repent and believe—to come to Christ by faith, in other words—but also an invitation to come physically. The evangelist urges listeners to stand up, walk forward, raise a hand, or indicate outwardly in some other way that this "opportunity to receive Christ" is being accepted. This type of invitation to respond outwardly has become known as the altar call.

Most pastors and evangelists who favor this methodology would not say, of course, that a person is saved by walking forward or by raising his hand. They learned in Theology 101 that a person is saved by faith. But these meetings are filled with people who have little, if any, biblical knowledge, and often no sharp awareness whatsoever of critical doctrines. Many of them have backgrounds in false religious systems where people are supposedly saved by physical acts, such as baptism or the performance of sacraments. This "going forward" may seem to be just a different kind of sacrament that is a necessary supplement to faith—that is, unless true biblical doctrines are carefully explained and methods are not allowed to confuse the issue. In any case, according to what they are now being told, combined with what they are being asked to do, many of these theologically uninformed (or misguided) people will come to a conclusion something like this: "I agree with what the preacher has said, and I know it applies to me. Therefore, I can be saved if I will do as he says." This is unarguably how the "opportunity to receive Christ" was presented, and unless the listener already knows more about what it means to "receive Jesus" than he has just been told, this is the way it will be perceived.

How could such invitations be perceived in any other way when the sinner hears things like, "Don't let distance keep you from Christ. Christ went to the cross because he loved you. Certainly you can come these few steps. Come right now (emphasis mine)." [1] The same preacher who said that also said of his method of evangelism, "We try to make our invitations straightforward so that a person knows he is coming for conversion and salvation (emphasis mine)." [2] Clearly this conveys the idea that only the ones who respond physically will be saved.

Again, most proponents of the altar call would say that it is not absolutely essential for people to walk forward if they are to be saved. But actions speak much louder than words. In certain well-documented cases, some of the larger crusades have gone so far as to place counselors at various locations in the audience so that when the invitation is given, and when the counselors begin to walk forward from their various positions, others are more inclined to go forward themselves. It is easy to understand the psychological rationale behind this. The reluctant sinner sees the counselors going forward and presumes that they are ordinary people like himself who are availing themselves of the offer of Christ (which, of course, is what he has been intentionally led to believe the counselors are doing). He naturally thinks, "If all of them think this is a legitimate offer, and if they have the guts to go forward, I can do it too." Now let's be frank. If the gospel is truly thought to be a sufficient means of saving sinners by faith—if going forward like this is not thought to be an essential part of receiving Jesus—why would anyone resort to using such a ruse?

Many who would decry such a blatant use of psychological manipulation nevertheless place a similar emphasis on methodology themselves, at least in principle. The mood of their meetings is carefully orchestrated through the use of video, lighting, music, etc. so those in attendance will be emotionally primed to respond when the invitation is given. Traffic jams of responders in the isles are carefully avoided because statistics show that if people have to wait in line or stand too long while going forward, they are more likely to stay in their seats. And timing issues in the program are seen as critical because studies have also shown that if attendees get bored, or if too much time elapses between the message and the invitation, fewer will respond. None of these concerns result in overtly deceptive strategies. They do not startle the conscience as does the crusade strategy mentioned above. But the importance placed on addressing even these less-obvious methodological concerns proves that it is seen as tremendously important (one could almost say, essential) for people to get up and walk forward if they are to be saved.

The Corrupt Root of Altar Call Methodology

When did this way of thinking begin? When did pastors and evangelists stop relying solely on the evangel and start relying on methodological innovations? Neither this mindset, nor the methods that flow from it, can be traced back to the apostles. The fact is, altar call methodology is a relatively recent innovation. While no one can directly point to its precise origin, most who have studied the issue agree that the methodology was popularized largely through the influence of a man named Charles Grandison Finney. Finney was a Presbyterian minister in the mid-1800s who supposedly revolutionized the practice of winning souls through the use of emotionally charged preaching and highly influential pressure tactics designed to excite the human will to action. His methodology has unarguably had a huge (and in my view, negative) impact on modern evangelism.

Before I discuss the modern fallout from Finney's methods, you need to be aware of some of his theological convictions. It was from his theology, after all, that his methodology flowed. And at the core of Finney's theology was his stubborn opposition to the biblical view of the natural man. [3] Finney was convinced that people naturally possess the full capacity to please God without being graciously reborn (i.e., without being "born again"). He denied that man had inherited a sinful nature that must be transformed by God if he is to be saved. Where Jesus said, "unless one is born again he cannot see the kingdom of God" (John 3:3), Finney insisted that "No such change is needed, as the sinner has all the faculties and natural attributes requisite to render perfect obedience to God. All he needs is to be induced to use these powers and attributes as he ought. [4]

Rejecting the biblical teaching that God works a miraculous transformation of the fallen sinner's nature (i.e., regeneration, cf. Titus 3:5; John 1:13; 3:3; Ephesians 2:4-5; James 1:18; 1 Peter 1:23), Finney went on to say, "Regeneration does not express or imply the creation of any new faculties or attributes of nature, nor any change whatsoever in the constitution of body or mind." [5] In Finney's view, regeneration consisted in nothing more than a person determining to transform himself—resolving, according to abilities he naturally possessed, to think and behave in a way that pleases God. Confirming this in his book Revivals of Religion, Finney wrote,

There is nothing in religion beyond the ordinary powers of nature. It consists entirely in the right exercise of the powers of nature. It is just that and nothing else. When [men] become religious, they are not enabled to put forth exertions which they were before unable to put forth. They only exert the powers they had before in a different way and use them for the glory of God." [6]

Finney's rejection of the biblical doctrine of regeneration was based on his rejection of the doctrine of original sin. He refused to believe that a sinful nature inherited from Adam renders the unregenerate sinner helpless and unable to bring about his own conversion (as is plainly taught in passages like John 3:3, 6:44, 65, Romans 8:7-8, and 1 Corinthians 2:14). Forcefully rejecting this foundational biblical truth, Finney wrote,

This doctrine is a stumbling-block both to the church and the world, infinitely dishonorable to God, and an abomination alike to God and the human intellect, and should be banished from every pulpit, and from every formula of doctrine, and from the world. It is a relic of heathen philosophy, and was foisted in among the doctrines of Christianity by Augustine, as everyone may know who will take the trouble to examine for himself. [7]

Charles Finney's brand of theology is known today as "Moral Government Theology." It is a system of doctrine which emphasizes the consequences, whether positive or negative, of following the example of another person. According to Finney and his theological posterity, people do not sin because they are unavoidably sinful by nature (contrary to Ephesians 2:1-3 and Titus 3:3). They are born perfectly capable of living a holy life that is pleasing to God (contrary to Romans 8:7-8). And they only sin because they choose to sin (not because they are sinful by nature due to Adam's fall, contrary to Romans 5:18-19). Correspondingly, according to Moral Government Theology, people are not saved by being supernaturally changed by God (contrary to John 1:13 and 3:3) and graciously drawn to faith in Christ (contrary to John 6:44 and 65). They are saved by their own obedience to God's law (contrary to Romans 3:19-20, 28, 4:4-8, Galatians 2:15-16, 21, etc.). They are saved, in other words, by consistently following Christ's example of obedience to the Father, rather than Adams example of sin.

Charles Finney often used the word "grace" in his preaching and writing, but the biblical concept of grace had no place in his theology. According to Finney, who was a lawyer before becoming a minister, the sinner's present and personal obedience to God is the only ground of his justification. Finney asked, "Can a man be justified while sin remains in him?" Answering his own question, he replied, "Surely he cannot, either upon legal or gospel principles, unless the law be repealed." [8] Finney scoffed at the idea that ungodly people are justified by grace alone through faith alone because of Christ's atoning death and imputed righteousness alone. In further answering his own question, He concluded that "nothing is accepted as virtue under the government of God, but present full obedience to the law". He went on to say, "Whenever a Christian sins he comes under condemnation, and must repent and do his first works, or be lost." [9] When one closely examines Finney's preaching and writing, it becomes evident that his apparent success in evangelism was the result of his methodology alone. The true means of salvation—the gospel of God's grace—did not play a prominent role, if any role at all.

Finney's self-discipline and piety were exemplary. Furthermore, his zeal has won him the admiration (and emulation) of many notable pastors and evangelists today. Though modern evangelistic methods have been adapted for a culture much different than Finney's, it is no stretch to say that Finney is the "father" of altar call methodology in general. [10] He even holds a place of honor in the Billy Graham Center in Wheaton, Illinois. But while Finney's life may have been commendable in many respects, his theological convictions were nearly identical to those of a 5th-century British monk named Pelagius, the man whose system of doctrine has been condemned as heresy by more church councils, synods, assemblies, and confessions of faith than any other person in history. [11] Given Finney's exalted status in modern evangelicalism, one can only hope that his theological views are not well known by those who honor him so highly. Otherwise, we have no choice but to conclude that many important Christian leaders truly believe that even the most serious doctrinal error (actually, a denial of the core of the gospel itself) does not matter as long as the outward results are impressive. [12]

Theology Inspires Methodology

Finney's evangelistic methods flowed from his theology. In keeping with his rejection of the biblical doctrines of human depravity and the need for regeneration by God, Finney's basic tactic was to press hard on the human will in order to excite sinners to a God-pleasing obedience to the law, of which he was convinced all people are naturally capable.

Before anyone misunderstands, please let me affirm that being saved does involve the positive response of the human will. The person who is saved begins, at a point in time, to consciously and voluntarily assent and submit to (as well as delight in) God's revealed truth where he formerly dissented to it in open rebellion or apathetic disinterest (which is also a form of rebellion). God grants regeneration to whom He pleases, thus freeing the will, which, until the point of regeneration, is enslaved to sin and opposed to God and truth. Once the will has been set free through regeneration, faith inevitably follows (cf. John 6:44-45). In this way it is rightly said that saving faith is a gift from God. But God does not do the believing for us. A person must believe if he is to be saved. I also want to affirm that an essential part of preaching the gospel is to invite, persuade, exhort, even implore unconverted people to come to Christ by faith. I am by no means against the practice of inviting people to come to Christ so that they may be saved. In fact, I am against any sort of evangelistic preaching where people are not invited to come to Christ in order to be saved. What I am against—what Charles Finney popularized and his modern followers have adapted—is the practice of inviting people to come to the front of an auditorium (or perform some other outward demonstration) in order to be saved.

Every biblical evangelist will, as part of his preaching, implore his hearers to repent and believe. Some may even invite hearers to come forward at the end of the meeting to speak with a pastor or counselor in order to learn more about the gospel, ask for materials to read, ask questions about the Bible or what they heard in the sermon, etc. But no truly biblical evangelist will assure a person that he will be saved if he will, at a particular moment in time, decide something, say something, or do something in response to an invitation. Contrary to the biblical goal of gospel preaching, which is to make men humble, penitent, and wholly dependent on God, such invitations and assurances actually serve to increase self-reliance and build unwarranted spiritual confidence. As Charles Spurgeon said,

What the Arminian wants to do is to arouse man's activity. What we want to do is to kill it once for all—to show him that he is lost and ruined, and that his activities are not now at all equal to the work of conversion; that he must look upward. They seek to make the man stand up. We seek to bring him down, and make him feel that there he lies in the hand of God, and that his business is to submit himself to God, and cry aloud, 'Lord, save, or we perish.' We hold that man is never so near grace as when he begins to feel he can do nothing at all. [13]

Methodology Reflects, and Teaches, Theology

As I said earlier, I am not at all suggesting that preachers who use the altar call in some form consciously believe that the walk forward is a saving walk. What I am asking Christians to ask themselves, however, is this: If going forward or praying a particular prayer to receive Christ are not necessary (or at least helpful) in order to acquire salvation, why do so many pastors and evangelists conclude their preaching with statements like, "I want to give you the opportunity to come forward and receive Jesus"? If the sinner can receive Jesus by faith where he sits, what additional opportunity presents itself at the front of the auditorium?

In my view, while the motives of those who employ altar call methodology are noble, the method itself is naturally deceptive. When going forward (or any other form of public demonstration or decision) is represented as "an opportunity to receive Jesus," the person looking for relief from a troubled conscience cannot help but conclude that at least some aspect of his eternal benefit can be gained only by complying with the preacher's request. The preacher may not mean to convey this, but his actions and words so strongly imply it that the listener cannot help but think that he must do something beyond merely believing if he is to be saved. Likewise, the one who does respond outwardly as instructed cannot help but assume that he has gained something of eternal importance by doing so, even though outward responses often reflect no corresponding inner reality. And when the meeting is over, the one who did not respond as invited cannot help but believe he has missed the "opportunity." Most evangelists who favor the altar call method also strongly affirm the doctrine of sola fide (justification by faith alone). But the charge that their methods appear to contradict this doctrine cannot be easily dismissed. If nothing related to salvation is gained by a person's outward response to some form of altar call, then what is the reason for asking people to respond in these ways if they want to be saved? Are people saved by faith alone or are they not?

The Bitter Fruit of Altar Call Methodology

Altar call methodology appears quite successful at first glance. The initial commitments of large numbers of people seem to demonstrate that this truly is better evangelism—a method that really works. In reality, however, just the opposite is true. Altar call evangelism rarely produces lasting fruit. While the initial statistics are often impressive, the numbers of those who bear the biblical marks of regeneration are usually minute in comparison. D. A. Carson calls attention to this disturbing pattern in his book, A Call for Spiritual Reformation:

To what extent do those who profess faith at world-class evangelistic meetings actually persevere, over a period of five years from their initial profession of faith? When careful studies have been undertaken, the most commonly agreed range is 2 percent to 4 percent; that is, between 2 percent and 4 percent of those who make a profession of faith at such meetings are actually persevering in the faith five years later, as measured by such external criteria as attendance at church, regular Bible reading, or the like. [14]

The unarguable and embarrassing fact is that altar call evangelism does not tend to produce high percentages of true converts. This is true now, and it was true of the ministry of Charles Finney. Consider the following selection from Phil Johnson's article on Finney (appropriately entitled, "A Wolf in Sheep's Clothing," see footnote 12). Johnson quotes extensively here from B. B. Warfield's book, Studies in Perfectionism:

The Western half of New York became known as "the burnt-over district," because of the negative effects of the revivalist movement that culminated in Finney's work there. These facts are often obscured in the popular lore about Finney. But even Finney himself spoke of "a burnt district" [Memoirs, 78], and he lamented the absence of any lasting fruit from his evangelistic efforts. He wrote,

I was often instrumental in bringing Christians under great conviction, and into a state of temporary repentance and faith . . . . [But] falling short of urging them up to a point, where they would become so acquainted with Christ as to abide in Him, they would of course soon relapse into their former state. [cited in B. B. Warfield, Studies in Perfectionism, 2 vols. (New York: Oxford, 1932), 2:24]

One of Finney's contemporaries registered a similar assessment, but more bluntly:

During ten years, hundreds, and perhaps thousands, were annually reported to be converted on all hands; but now it is admitted, that real converts are comparatively few. It is declared, even by [Finney] himself, that "the great body of them are a disgrace to religion." [cited in Warfield, 2:23]

B. B. Warfield cited the testimony of Asa Mahan, one of Finney's close associates,

. . . who tells us—to put it briefly—that everyone who was concerned in these revivals suffered a sad subsequent lapse: the people were left like a dead coal which could not be reignited; the pastors were shorn of all their spiritual power; and the evangelists—"among them all," he says, "and I was personally acquainted with nearly every one of them—I cannot recall a single man, brother Finney and father Nash excepted, who did not after a few years lose his unction, and become equally disqualified for the office of evangelist and that of pastor." Thus the great "Western Revivals" ran out into disaster. . . . Over and over again, when [Finney] proposed to revisit one of the churches, delegations were sent him or other means used, to prevent what was thought of as an affliction. . . . Even after a generation had passed by, these burnt children had no liking for the fire. [Warfield, 2:26-28]

All of this helps to explain the hostile resistance that often comes when worldly professing Christians who are the product of altar call methodology are urged to examine themselves for the fruit of genuine conversion. Because of their former decision experience and the assurance they were given at the time, they are hardened against any suggestion that it might not have been genuine. But what they perceive as judgmental intrusions into their happy life as "born again Christians" are actually loving appeals for them to recognize their own worldliness and state of deception. Even the parents of ungodly young people who have "gotten saved" in this way will often defend their child's alleged standing with Christ in the face of plain evidence to the contrary. The emotional memories of the child's "decision for Christ" leave them in a sad state of denial. They have an obviously unconverted child in their home, but their unwillingness to part with the comforting assurance that the child was saved when he or she "went forward" or "prayed the sinner's prayer" renders them unwilling to look at the problem from a biblical standpoint and admit that he or she might be a deceived unbeliever. And remember that the unwarranted assurance in these false converts is not the result of misunderstanding something they were told. It naturally follows from believing what they were told. As Whitney R. Cross notes in his historical account of the Finney-style revival ministry of the mid-1800s, the whole process can easily become "a relentless mechanism forcing the person to say he was converted and to imagine the corresponding inner transformation." [15]

The truth is, altar call methodology creates more problems than it solves. Most "decisions" produce only what the unchanged human heart is easily and deceptively able to manufacture on its own—false religious zeal and moral resolve. The only difference is that in this case, all is done under the banner of Christianity, as opposed to some other religion. While we should rejoice that many have been truly saved through these methods, we should mourn that many more—likely the vast majority—have been left in a worse condition than before.

Conclusion

Iain Murray makes an excellent point in his book,Revival and Revivalism, when he says,

To tell men the worst about themselves is not to hinder conversion. On the contrary, the real impediment to conversion is the absence of conviction of sin. The preacher's first duty is to address that fact by awakening the conscience to the meaning of sin, and to sin understood not simply as wrong action requiring forgiveness, but as an evil principle governing man's very heart. A sinner's knowledge of his own inability is therefore part of the knowledge which leads him to recognize that what he needs is a new nature. [16]

Because what is needed for salvation is a new nature (cf. John 3:3), not merely a decision of the human will, it is our obligation to wait until we see the evidence of a new nature before considering someone a Christian. It is also our responsibility to be careful not to be deceived in this regard. The New Testament contains dozens of warnings, both to the church and the individual, about false professions of faith. [17] Such warnings do not lead us to conclude that the assurance of salvation is automatic or easily obtained. And since these warnings are an integral part of New Testament instruction, they must be carefully and diligently explained in our preaching, especially our evangelistic preaching. But strangely, these warnings are not typically emphasized (if they are mentioned at all) in the context of altar call evangelism. The reason for this is obvious. You cannot logically assure a person that he will be saved if he will come forward to receive Christ, and then say afterward, "Now don't be too easily assured by what you just said and did that you are actually saved."

The fact is, altar call evangelism is grounded on the practice of giving the promise of immediate assurance to those who respond. This promise is the primary means of persuading people to come forward to receive Jesus. After all, apart from such assurance, why would anyone come? People are not being asked to go forward so that they can try to get saved. They are told that they are coming forward (to quote the same preacher I quoted earlier) "for conversion and salvation." And if what they are promised is what they actually receive—in other words, if this promise is unfailingly true—then there is absolutely no reason to tell them about the biblical warnings concerning false assurance and false professions of faith. So in the final analysis, altar call evangelism renders a major block of New Testament instruction (for example, nearly the entire book of 1 John) utterly useless. Surely, this alone is enough to show that the method itself is flawed.

If we truly believe that salvation is by God's grace alone, not something that is accomplished by means of a partnership between God and man, we will have no apprehension about preaching the gospel and inviting people to Christ in such a way that they are left with nothing to do but repent and believe, and nowhere to go but to Christ Himself by faith.

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1 Billy Graham, as quoted in Curtis Mitchell, God in the Garden: The Official Story of the Billy Graham New York Crusade (Kinswood, surrey: World's work, 1957), pp. 148-149. Quote found in Iain Murry, Evangelicalism Divided, (Edinburgh: Banner of Truth, 2000), 52.

2 Billy Graham, as quoted in C. Catherwood, Five Evangelical Leaders (London: Hodder and Stoughton, 1984), p. 211. Quote found in Iain Murray, Evangelicalism Divided, 52.

3 To know what I mean by "a biblical view of the natural man," see my article entitled "Thinking and Speaking Biblically About the Natural Condition of Man" at http://www.ccwtoday.org/article_view.asp?article_id=136.

4 Charles G. Finney, Finney's Lectures on Systematic Theology (Grand Rapids: Eerdmans, reprint of the revised 1878 edition), p. 285.

5 Ibid.

6 Charles Finney, Revivals of Religion (Moody Press, 1962), p. 12.

7 Finney's Lectures on systematic Theology, p. 252.

8 Ibid., p. 121.

9 Ibid., p. 123-4.

10 Iain Murray demonstrates the historical basis for this claim in his book, Revival and Revivalism: The Making and Marring of American Evangelicalism, (Edinburgh: Banner of Truth, 1994).

11 Pelagius' teachings were condemned by four regional councils, one ecumenical council, at least one Roman Catholic council, as well as numerous Protestant synods, assemblies, and confessions: The Councils of Carthage (416 and 418), The Third Ecumenical (universal) Council in Ephesus (431), The Council of Orange (529), The Council of Trent (1546), The Second Helvetic Confession (Swiss-German Reformed, 1561-66), The Augsburg Confession (Lutheran, 1530), The Gallican Confession (French Reformed, 1559), The Belgic Confession (French/Dutch/German Reformed, 1561), The Anglican Articles (English, 1571), and The Canons of Dort (Dutch/German/French Reformed, 1618-1619). It should be noted that although Pelagius' teachings were condemned by the Council of Trent (Roman Catholic), the prevailing doctrines of the Roman Catholic Church today, as well as those of many evangelical Arminian churches, are a modified yet still unbiblical version of his teaching, known as "Semi-Pelagianism."

12 For more about Charles Finney, see Iain Murray's excellent book, Revival and Revivalism (Banner of Truth Trust, 1994). I also recommend two helpful internet articles: "The Disturbing Legacy of Charles Finney," by Dr. Michael Horton (http://www.issuesetc.org/resource/journals/horton.htm), and "A Wolf in Sheep's Clothing," by Phil Johnson (http://www.spurgeon.org/~phil/articles/finney.htm).

13 C. H. Spurgeon, from a sermon entitled "High Doctrine," preached June 3, 1860.

14 D. A. Carson, A Call to Spiritual Reformation (Grand Rapids: Baker Books, 1992), p. 14.

15 Whitney R. Cross, The Burned-Over District (New York: Harper and Row, Publishers, 1950), pp. 181-2.

16 Iain Murray, Revival and Revivalism (Banner of Truth, 1994), p. 370.

17 For example: Matthew 7:21-23; 13:20-21; 18:15-17; Mark 4:16-17; Luke 8:13; John 2:23-25; 10:27; Acts 26:20; Romans 6:16; 1 Corinthians 5:11; 6:9-10; 2 Corinthians 13:5; Galatians 5:19-21; Ephesians 4:17-21; Philippians 3:17-19; Colossians 1:21-23; Hebrews 3:12-14; James 2:14-26; 2 Peter 1:5-11; 1 John 1:5-6; 2:3-4, 15, 19, 2:29; 3:4-10, 18-19; 4:7-8; 2 John 9; Jude 4.

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Monday, October 5, 2009

Discipline of Children: Lessons from Proverbs

by Daryl Wingerd

The obligation for Christian parents to bring up their children “in the discipline and instruction of the Lord” is stated clearly in the New Testament (Eph. 6:4). The Bible’s manual of practical instruction concerning discipline, however, is found in the Old Testament. It is the book of Proverbs.

The writers of the New Testament display an obvious dependence on this particular Old Testament book, especially when speaking of discipline. The writer of Hebrews, for example, quotes from Proverbs 3:11-12 when describing the discipline of the Lord, likening it to the discipline of the father who delights in his son. Jesus alludes to the same text when He says, “Those whom I love I reprove and discipline” (Rev. 3:19). Two of these New Testament texts bring to mind Proverbs 29:15 where we are told that “the rod and rebuke give wisdom”—something physical and something verbal. Jesus reverses the order in Revelation 3:19, putting the verbal first and the physical second, but in Ephesians 6:4 the order of physical then verbal is preserved—“the discipline and instruction of the Lord.” This New Testament dependence on the book of Proverbs, combined with the fact that the New Testament contains little actual instruction concerning the hands-on aspects of raising children, makes it seem reasonable to look to the book of Proverbs as a prime source of sound and practical counsel.

This article is largely concerned with the physical aspect of discipline—using “the rod of correction” (22:15). The word “rod” is linked in one place in the book of Proverbs with the word “strike” (23:13-14). Another proverbial reference to discipline contains the words “stripes” (or “blows”), “wound” (or “hurt”) and “strokes” (20:30). This factor, along with the simple definition of the Hebrew word for “rod” (a stick used for striking), leads to the conclusion that when the word is used in the book of Proverbs it is intended to refer to physical correction by means of spanking. I offer the following principles of discipline, therefore, with the understanding that I am not using the word “rod” as a metaphorical reference to whatever means of correction a parent might prefer. I am referring to a striking implement of some sort, firmly applied to the backside of a child, with the intent of causing physical pain, and for the goal of bringing the child into consistent and joyful submission to parental authority (and hopefully, into joyful submission to the Lordship of Jesus Christ as well). I realize that many parents do not prefer, or even believe in, spanking as a means of discipline. By studying the above passages more closely, it will at least be clear that this is the biblical approach.

I’m writing more directly to fathers in this article, but most of the instructions apply to either fathers or mothers. If you are a single mother, you will find plenty of biblical help here to guide you.

This is an unpopular subject for some, especially in a day when we often hear sad cases of child abuse and the uncontrolled tempers of some parents. Yet controlled and measured discipline may yield extraordinary results in your children and in the order of the home. What I’m going to say to you is far removed from abuse, though it does involve temporary pain. As I have practiced the biblical teaching on physical discipline over the years, my children have increased, rather than abated, in their love for my wife and me. They will tell you so themselves. Remember above all, as you read, that the intent of disciplining a child is to actually demonstrate love. This is modeled for us by God Himself:

For those whom the Lord loves He disciplines,
And He scourges every son whom He receives. (Hebrews 11:6)

Helps for Applying Biblical Correction:

1. Don’t view the rod as a last resort, and don’t use it only for the “worst” sins.

The rod is the only form of physical discipline that is explicitly commended and commanded in Scripture (Prov. 22:15; 29:15; 23:13-14). Verbal correction (rebuke or reproof) is also referred to as “discipline” in the book of Proverbs (cf. 6:23; 12:1; 13:1, 18; 15:5, 32; 17:10; 19:20, 27), so I am not saying that words of warning or rebuke are not biblical means of discipline as well. Proverbs 29:15 says, in fact, that “the rod and reproof give wisdom.” There is also nothing sinful in employing other creative means for training children or solving problems related to their behavior (for example, firmly patting the mouth of a small child who will not stop talking, requiring a child to hold a hand over the mouth for incessant talking or interrupting, removal of privileges to foster a thankful attitude, or making a child sit quietly on a chair when he or she needs to calm down). But when verbal correction fails to produce repentance, and when further corrective discipline is called for, training devices like these should not be thought of as replacements for, or equal to, spanking. The use of the rod is the only manner of physical discipline clearly prescribed by God, and should therefore be established in your home as the “default” means used when words are not enough. As an old Egyptian proverb says, “boys have ears on their backsides; they listen when they are beaten.”

2. Use the rod early.

Proverbs 19:18 says, “Discipline your son while there is hope, and do not desire his death” (emphasis mine). This verse tells us that there will come a time when there is no more reasonable hope—when it is too late to discipline effectively, presumably because patterns of behavior have become so ingrained in a child that spanking will not have the desired effect. The early years, therefore, are the time to firmly establish the regular and consistent use of the rod. I suppose no one should prescribe a specific age to begin spanking, but no one should prescribe a specific age that is too early for spanking either. If a child is old enough to intentionally disobey or display an obviously rebellious attitude, he or she is old enough to experience painful correction. For very young children, you may wish to apply the rod on the bottom of the foot or on the upper part of the leg. If you use the rod effectively and regularly during your children’s early years, you will drive foolishness from them early (cf. Prov. 22:15), and give them the wisdom to be more attentive to rebuke (reproof) as they grow older.

3. Use the rod to generate pain sufficient to deter the child from sinning.

Proverbs 20:30 tells us that for the rod to be effective, the blows must hurt. The child who goes away from a spanking undeterred in his or her sinful attitude or behavior has not experienced a degree of pain sufficient to bring him or her into submission. This obviously implies that certain children will need to be spanked harder, or with more repeated blows, than others. Here are a few practical issues to consider in order to make your spankings effective:

  • Use an effective implement. A paddle made of balsa wood will have little effect. The hand is usually not the best choice either. It is softer than a wooden paddle, and it does not match the biblical description of a “rod.” In my experience, a heavier wooden paddle of some sort is the best option.
  • Remove protective padding. For example, blue jeans only serve to minimize the desired effect.
  • Be sure the child holds still so that your blows are not indirect, inefficient, or deflected by flailinglimbs. Younger children who flail may require physical restraint by the parent giving the spanking, but the best practice is to train the child to hold still and submit voluntarily to the discipline. Promising (and delivering) extra swats for flailing is one good way to accomplish this.
  • Pause between swats. Three swats given in rapid succession impress the mind of the child as one sustained but brief experience of pain, while a delay between swats (three or four seconds) makes each individual sensation of pain more unpleasant and significant.
Proverbs 23:13-14 seems to be a response to those who are reluctant in this area. The writer says, “Do not hold back discipline from the child, although you strike him with the rod, he will not die” (v. 13). The writer knew that some parents might be tempted not to spank, or spank hard enough. He actually comforts the parent by saying (in effect), “Your spanking, even though significantly painful, will not kill the child. On the contrary, by doing what is necessary, you will ‘rescue his soul from Sheol’” (v. 14).

In some cases, mothers lack the physical strength to make spankings effective, especially with children who struggle and resist during discipline. Fathers must therefore establish the standard and make up for any lack of strength on Mom’s part (more on this later).

4. Use the rod for improper attitudes and when children test your parental will.

Once, after I had instructed my 3-year-old son to stop climbing on the back of the couch and sit down, he looked me in the eye and said, “You don’t tell me what to do.” The whole family was in the room for family worship, and the response to my son’s defiant comment was pin-drop silence. Every eye was on me. After an immediate trip to my office in the basement, my son had a much better understanding of who would tell whom what to do. What a clear example of brazen rebellion, you might be saying, but compare my son’s sin with the child who glares at you, puts on a sour face and pouts, stubbornly refuses to make eye contact, or ignores you when you speak, but does not say anything back. The only difference between this child and my son is that my son actually vocalized what was in his heart. The child who does these other things is saying, even though only in his or her mind, “You don’t tell me what to do.” Discipline your children for angry, disrespectful looks or tones of voice, stubbornly folded arms, stomping feet, or rolled eyes, because actions like these reveal a heart of rebellion just as clearly as words.

5. Teach submission before entrusting with decisions.

Proverbs 29:15 says “The rod and reproof give wisdom, but a child who gets his own way brings shame to his mother.” The point of this proverb is that the child who is given the right to control his own circumstances, rather than immediately submitting to the decisions of his parents, will become a problem. There comes a point at which children need to be taught decision-making principles and skills, but younger children need to learn first to promptly and joyfully submit.

Well-meaning parents often err, in my view, by entrusting very young children with too much authority in making their own choices. For example, let’s say it’s nearing bedtime for your 3-year-old, so you ask, “Are you ready for bed?” The child will probably answer, “No, not yet.” If you are the typical parent, you might then say, “OK, you can stay up 10 more minutes” (After all, if you were not prepared for a “no” answer, you should not have asked the question.). Now the child is happy and goes to bed without protest after 10 minutes have gone by. While this may seem like a positive encounter, the child has been led to believe that he made the final decision as to when bedtime was. In his mind, he got his own way. While this might make for a peaceful evening, it has not taught the child to submit to the parent’s will. How much better to inform the younger child that it is time for bed (rather than asking if he is ready for bed), and then deal correctively with any resistance or defiance? How much better to make this the regular practice until the child has learned pleasant and prompt submission to parental instruction and decisions? The most important lesson children need to learn at a very early age is that they must submit to your will, not you to theirs.

6. Fathers must be leaders in the area of discipline.

It is tempting for fathers who are gone all day at work to be reluctant to deal with disciplinary issues when arriving at home. It is also tempting to allow disciplinary standards to slip at this time because you want your children to look forward to your arrival rather than fearing the sound of the car in the driveway. Your wife, however, may have been dealing with disobedience and disrespect in your absence. Consider some of the results of your reluctance to deal correctively with the sins that were committed in your absence:

  • By your lack of corrective action, you will cause your child to lose some respect for his or her mother. It will appear to the child as though she has made too much of the disobedience. After all, you were not all that concerned about it when you came home, so your wife must have been overreacting (or so the child reasons). Your reluctance to discipline in situations like this actually makes life harder for your wife in the days to come, and can create a divided loyalty in your child’s heart.
  • By being lenient when the child has been disobedient or rebellious for your wife, you gain a false affection from the child—one that is not tempered by respect. Just as true Christians have a reverent fear of the God they love, children should have a reverent fear of the father they love.
  • When you fail to discipline (when necessary) upon your arrival at home, you miss the opportunity to teach your children about soberly anticipating Christ’s return. Jesus is clear in the New Testament that those who misbehave in His absence will be ashamed and will be treated severely upon His return. By teaching your children to fear your return if they have been disrespectful or disobedient in your absence, you teach them a valuable truth about Christ’s return.
  • By attempting to love your children through lenience, you fail to demonstrate the love they truly need at that moment—the love displayed through the use of the rod (cf. Prov. 3:11-12; 13:24).
  • By relying so heavily upon your wife’s discipline (whose spankings are probably less painful than yours), you deprive your child of some of the pain which the Bible says “scours away evil” (Prov. 20:30). In my experience, one of the most effective ways to instill in children a healthy respect of both parents is to let the children know that you work together on their discipline. This can be done, for example, by assuring the child that if he or she gets a “Mom” spanking while you are gone, a “Dad” spanking may be expected when you get home.
The point is, you should not delegate the full responsibility for corrective discipline to your wife, even when you are away from home. You are the disciplinary leader in the home and should set a biblical pace, helping and encouraging your wife to keep up the pace as best she can in your absence.

7. Discipline your children as future church members.

You cannot make your child become a Christian, but you should be raising your children with the expectation that they will become Christians. Therefore, because an integral part of being a Christian is being a good church member, you should be raising them with the expectation that they will begin to behave like good church members. You should begin training them to participate with the church in the most basic ways—ways that would be expected of any church member. I am referring to basic skills and disciplines like sitting still in a chair, focusing attention on whomever is speaking, and remaining quiet so others are not distracted. Other ways of participating may be added as they grow older, but these are essential to learn even at the start.

Younger children will certainly not be perfect because they are naturally geared toward selfishness and foolishness in all these ways. They want to talk whenever they feel like talking. They want to wiggle or get down on the floor because they are more comfortable there. They want to focus their attention on whatever they want to focus on, and so on. By making the decision to take a 3 or 4-year-old out of the nursery and keep him in the full meeting of the church, you are also making the decision to discipline that child when his or her selfishness and foolishness becomes disruptive. As the proverb says, “Foolishness is bound up in the heart of a child, but the rod of correction will drive it far from him” (22:15).

Our culture may frown on spanking, but you should meet with no opposition or disapproval in a godly, Bible-believing church if you decide to take your child out for a little “church discipline.” Everyone should rejoice to see that you are bringing up your child in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.

Applicable Passages from the Book of Proverbs

Proverbs 3:11-12
My son, do not reject the discipline of the Lord or loathe His reproof, for whom the Lord loves He reproves, even as a father corrects the son in whom he delights.

Proverbs 13:24
He who withholds his rod hates his son, but he who loves him disciplines him diligently.

Proverbs 19:18
Discipline your son while there is hope, and do not desire his death.

Proverbs 20:30
Stripes that wound scour away evil, and strokes reach the innermost parts.

Proverbs 22:15
Foolishness is bound up in the heart of a child, but the rod of discipline will drive it far from him.

Proverbs 23:13-14
Do not hold back discipline from the child, although you strike him with the rod, he will not die.
You shall strike him with the rod and rescue his soul from Sheol.

Proverbs 29:15
The rod and reproof give wisdom, but a child who gets his own way brings shame to his mother.


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